Love at the Second Sight

Feel weird about the title above? Well, I guess we’ve been so familiar with the phrase “Love at the First Sight” but it’s not a wrong title anyway.. :)

First of all, do you believe in love at the first sight? Coz I don’t! For me, you can’t just love someone since the first time you see him or her.. Love needs process. What people (whose love is in the air) said is definitely not love, but maybe just like or crush coz all you know about them is nothing but physical.. What you love from them is only their physical appearance, maybe her sexy body or his cute smile? How could you know someone in their inside, whether they’re nice, caring, mature, responsible or mean, liar, lazy, pathetic and so on if you never interact with them before? Then how could you say it as love?

Second of all, while there’s no love at the first sight but there is love at the second sight.. Well, it’s just my theory, so feel free to disagree.. This is a democratic state, right? And that means I do have rights as well to share my opinions, thoughts or feelings. That’s what blogs are for! Thanks to blog inventor :D

Anyway, let’s back to the topic! So, love at the second sight is when you’ve known about him or her, you know it’s like common relationship a.k.a friends and for any reasons, you both are losing contact or maybe just not so keep in touch with each other for a while.. Then the next time you see him or her again, they’ve changed (in a good way, hmm maybe looks better or something) or seems changed (they’re just the same but what has changed is the way you looked them or you’re finally realized) and you feel you’re in love with them!

Long definition, isn’t it? Hahaha, hope you’ll understand.. For me, what I called as love at the second sight is more real and true than the famous love at the first sight. Coz love at the second sight you love them completely, not only the outside but also the inside..

Third and also last of all, hmm.. I think the love at the second sight is happening to me ;p